{"id":2346,"date":"2019-12-31T11:30:10","date_gmt":"2019-12-31T06:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/therunningsoul.com\/?p=2346"},"modified":"2019-12-30T18:39:21","modified_gmt":"2019-12-30T13:09:21","slug":"the-2010s","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/therunningsoul.com\/2019\/12\/the-2010s\/","title":{"rendered":"The 2010s"},"content":{"rendered":"

A decade is a long time. The last one has seen a big paradigm shift for me. As I look ahead, into the unknown, here are the highlights of each year as I grew as a woman, a mother, and an athlete.<\/p>\n

2010: Transformation<\/strong><\/p>\n

Me taking charge of my life, from coping with things, I started \u201cLiving\u201d. The children were growing up quickly and I was settling down into a routine of work and running. Things were looking up and I was smiling more.<\/p>\n

2011: Inspiration\"\"<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

I joined Savio\u2019s running group and was surrounded by inspiration. I ran my first race out of town- ADHM (Delhi) and I was addicted. To the laughter, the challenges, the dreams, and the pain.<\/p>\n

2012: Challenge<\/strong><\/p>\n

I turned 40. In your 20s, you\u2019re so busy living life and dealing with stuff without thinking about the \u201cwhy\u201d. Fast-forward to your 40s, and you\u2019ve developed that steel that says: I\u2019ve messed around long enough; now I\u2019ll do what I like and I\u2019ll do it well! Inspired by my new running group, I ran my first Marathon that year!<\/p>\n

When I crossed that finish line I knew that I had found my race.<\/p>\n

When I crossed that finish line, I knew that I was a new person.<\/p>\n

I learned a very important lesson that year, \u201cAll dreams come true if we have\u00a0the\u00a0power to pursue them.\u201d<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>2013: Bonding
\n<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

The more I ran, the happier I became. \u00a0The repetitive running motion allowed my thoughts to meander, and me, to introspect. I wrote more. And by my second marathon, \u201cParul\u2019s boys\u201d became real thing! With shared pain, we shared stories, our joys and well\u2026runners don\u2019t have many sorrows!<\/p>\n

2014: Success<\/strong><\/p>\n

I learned the meaning of the word \u201cSuccess\u201d as I set a challenging goal for SCMM that year, trained for it and ran it to plan.<\/p>\n

My strongest finish ever.<\/p>\n

My most focused race ever.<\/p>\n

The seed to qualify for the Boston Marathon in 2016 was sown then. I learned the meaning of grit, determination and understood how the hunger to accomplish something could ignite a fire.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>2015: The Realisation of a Dream<\/strong><\/p>\n

My book was released. I had always wanted to write a book as a kid, although I never knew what it would be about. Running, along with everything else that it gave me, gave me a book with my name on it. Writing and getting it published was a marathon in itself! The heartaches and setbacks were real-life lessons.<\/p>\n

I got so much support from so many people. Runners, friends, family. When I shared my story, so many came forward and shared theirs with me. My small world just exploded and I was enveloped with affection and respect.<\/p>\n

2016: Impossible is nothing<\/strong><\/p>\n

The race I ran in Rotterdam, was a culmination of 3 years\u2019 work, sweat, pain, and single-minded dedication. While training for this race I left no stone unturned to make it happen. Demolishing the demons in my head, one by one, I understood that all that was in my control, was the training. The outcome would be what it would. So, I gave it my best. I had started by being amongst the slower runners, but I worked hard and made the impossible happen, by qualifying for the Boston Marathon.<\/p>\n

2017: Freedom<\/strong>\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

The highlight of 2017 was running Boston, with the electric energy of the city and the support of family In Boston, I felt super special and free! It was a 4-year dream come to fruition.<\/p>\n

2018: Recklessness and Tenacity<\/strong><\/p>\n

I started at the bottom of the barrel with swimming and cycling\u2026 For a long time I was splashing away to glory and just not moving. As for my cycling, no one could understand why I was so slow. I learned there were other ways to stop a bike rather than by falling off it! \u00a0I did not realise then, that doggedness had become a part of my personality. I had signed up for the Goa triathlon recklessly, I completed it with tenacity.<\/p>\n

2019: Becoming: Triathlete and Self<\/strong><\/p>\n

Call it impatience, or perhaps a clearer sense that I want to live in the here and now, I started making room in my life for the things that really matter. People, time and adventure. I set myself a new challenge by doing the Triathlon. Swimming in the ocean was really the one that took me back to my childhood with my third grade fear of the hindi exam. I took the time to learn the nuances of the new sport, learned to laugh at myself and spent time sipping black coffee, slowly. With a clear eye, I saw the world as it is today, and yet choose to be, lightheaded.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a><\/p>\n

I have found Happiness.<\/em><\/p>\n

Happiness, I have learned, is a by-product and not a goal.<\/em><\/p>\n

It is the effect of your actions.<\/em><\/p>\n

Happiness is what you feel when you do things you love.<\/em><\/p>\n

And I have found Love.<\/em><\/p>\n

Over the last decade, my family has expanded to include runners, triathletes, swimmers, all wonderful, inspiring mad people and more and the inner circle remains as tight as ever.<\/p>\n

Above all, I am grateful.<\/strong><\/p>\n

“At times, our own light goes out and is rekindled by a spark from another person.”<\/em><\/p>\n

An extract from my blog post of 31st<\/sup> Dec 2009:<\/p>\n

\u201cBut nothing major happened all of last year! And I think that it\u2019s not the big stuff but the moments which made us smile, laugh, cry. Things which made us pause our daily machinery to reflect, think and ruminate.\u201d<\/p>\n

My wish for the next decade:<\/p>\n

\u201cFor air to brighten, to be dazzled and \u00a0for the heart to lighten.\u201d\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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